Dec 02 2009
Forgiveness and Thankfulness
The Lord just showed me something extraordinary. That a very powerful combination of attitudes actually open and move heaven on our behalf. Forgiveness and thankfulness.
Forgiveness is more powerful than we can even imagine. It’s a pivotal choice that determines whether we will give up our right to get even or hold onto it, locking ourselves in a deathgrip with bitterness. The thing about unforgiveness is that it’s like being a conjoined twin whose other half has died. We are carrying about death and, just as it would be in real life, this death is toxic and slowly poisons us, killing us as well. On the other hand, forgiveness believes God is sovereign, that He is just and will go forward to make things right, that in the end, His love wins every battle He fights for us. Forgiveness also gives up control, and says, “God, this thing is driving me crazy, making me miserable.” And it sure does. Think back to a time when you struggled to forgive. Remember how miserable you were? That’s because revenge is a consuming fire. And though it’s meant to consume the other person, it only consumes us, destroys us.
Unforgiveness, when it continues, becomes a stumblingblock, a worse sin in God’s eyes than the original offense. Why? Because it stops the move of the Holy Spirit, hindering Him for working when we need Him most.
And not only that, it produces a crack in our spiritual armor that allows the devil legal entry to mess around in our lives. Do you really want to give the devil an opportunity like that?
Perhaps forgiving seems too hard at first. When we at least let go of our right to be bitter, we give God permission to soften our hearts and for heaven to go to work on the perpetrator in its own way, convicting of sin and often bringing repentance and transformation. And that permission, my friends, frees God to move heaven on our behalf, restoring our peace and shattering turmoil. In the end, we trust God like that little child who knows Daddy will take care of everything. And at that point where we’ve let go we also carry that exquisite fragrance of innocence I mentioned the other day.
Forgiveness and thankfulness go hand in hand. Once we have forgiven, we can also choose to do what seems odd, or even impossible–being thankful to God. Not necessarily for the harm done to us; often that’s too much to ask. But being thankful to God because He loves and has saved us, is a huge step toward breaking the hardness in our hearts. As we thank God He changes us inside, and fills us up with His mercy and grace. You and I are actually changed when we thank God during hard times. When we go as far as praising God in spite of circumstances we send God first, right into the thick of the battle, to fight for us. At least that’s what Scripture says. Wow!
The thing to remember is that God has huge plans for us, that no one but us can accomplish. We are essential to the body of Christ and many things will go begging if we choose to sit on the sidelines with hard hearts and crossed arms.
God can’t do much with a hard heart. If we harden our hearts we can no longer hear Him speak to us. We can no longer feel His touch, and more importantly, we put up a stop sign that says, “Go away, God. I don’t want to hear what you have to say right now.” And so He goes away.
Do we really want that? Do we really want to feel abandoned and isolated, alone and empty without His very presence when we need Him every moment of every day? Not I. More than anything I want to be filled with His spirit, basking in His presence, and glorying in the truth, that the King of Kings loves me and His very glory fills my belly if I let it. I want to move in love, so that people who need Jesus feel His love when they’re around me. I want to move in joy unspeakable and full of glory with every breath I take.
So let’s examine ourselves and see if there are any places where bitterness resides in the tiny crannies of our hearts. Let’s choose forgive and let God move more powerfully than ever, because we are only limited by our personal choices. It’s up to us to open the doors to our hearts and tell God to clean house and fill us up to overflowing and thanksgiving. For only then will He be able to freely use us to bless a dark and dying world.
Because of His great love,
Nancy